The Power Of NOW!

Transcendence

Dear amar, why does every blog post you have almost always has an EXCLAMATION sign to it ?

Of course it does, because life is about exclaiming all the time. Being passive and wishing for things to happen really doesn’t get anything

happening. The only way for things to happen is to make them happen. But stumbling and falling through every step of the way can also be

stressful, i know , been there done that. I used to wish that i could find a program that is cheap (like dirt cheap 99 cents kinda cheap) and

something that i could squeeze in between my lunch break, say an hour at max. There weren’t any. So when there is a wheel what do you do ?

You make something better than the wheel. That is why i have come up with 99 series of programs to help people get over their immediate

limiting beliefs and values. Once the…

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Transcendence

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“I have made millions by just sitting on my ass ” “I got lazy and got thin””Do nothing and wish it, want it and have it”

“YOU TOO can now get all this for a LOW LOW LOW PRICE OF %**.”

Sound familiar ?

These are the merchants of hope in this new era. Merchants of self “empowerment” as they would like to call it. Essentially con men of the internet age.

SO many of them flood the web that self help has become a joke in certain quarters.  You will be met with glares and statements  when you say that you are a trainer and such with statements like  “another M O T I V A T I O N A L guy”

Why is this happening i ask ? I believe very deeply in Self Help. It is a great thing to have resources be made available to…

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The Power Of NOW!

Dear amar, why does every blog post you have almost always has an EXCLAMATION sign to it ?

Of course it does, because life is about exclaiming all the time. Being passive and wishing for things to happen really doesn’t get anything

happening. The only way for things to happen is to make them happen. But stumbling and falling through every step of the way can also be

stressful, i know , been there done that. I used to wish that i could find a program that is cheap (like dirt cheap 99 cents kinda cheap) and

something that i could squeeze in between my lunch break, say an hour at max. There weren’t any. So when there is a wheel what do you do ?

You make something better than the wheel. That is why i have come up with 99 series of programs to help people get over their immediate

limiting beliefs and values. Once the initial breakwater has been destroyed everything else just flows!

So flow with the go…….

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The 3rd session 99’ners of USJR and JJC of CEBU. This was one of the first 99 series programme that i did. What i realized is not many will do what it takes RIGHT NOW, even at a very young age…This bunch, did. Question is did they continue ?

 

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“I have made millions by just sitting on my ass ” “I got lazy and got thin””Do nothing and wish it, want it and have it”

“YOU TOO can now get all this for a LOW LOW LOW PRICE OF %**.”

Sound familiar ?

These are the merchants of hope in this new era. Merchants of self “empowerment” as they would like to call it. Essentially con men of the internet age.

SO many of them flood the web that self help has become a joke in certain quarters.  You will be met with glares and statements  when you say that you are a trainer and such with statements like  “another M O T I V A T I O N A L guy”

Why is this happening i ask ? I believe very deeply in Self Help. It is a great thing to have resources be made available to the public by genuine trainers and coaches who genuinely want change for you as they have done for themselves. This may make me sound like a cultist, but i believe absolutely in the Neuro Linguistic Programming Technics,  in hypnosis and therapy. I believe in the forces of the law of attraction, affirmations, meditation, the power of the subconscious mind and many more in those lines. I subscribe to guru’s like Tony Robbins, a truly genuine soul who has helped me so much on a personal level and though i have never met the man personally , his work, books, blogs, video and audios has truly transformed my life. The late Dr.Stephen Covey, Dr.Wayne Dyer, Dr.Pillai, Bo Sanchez, Robert Kiyosaki and the list goes on and on and on. As much as i owe my existence to my parents, i owe in an amount no lesser than the  biggest value of my life today to these guru’s. These people however have a genuine quality to them. I spend a lot of my resource, money and time on self growth. One of my mentor’s , Mr. Barney Wee was instrumental in helping me navigate through my most difficult times years ago. A man who charges premium consultancy rates, but his help is genuine. So genuine in his effort to help me on a personal level he did not charge me a single cent.

I also get spammed with ton’s of emails and video mails of self made guru’s who claim to do webinars, have made gazillion dollars, bla bla bla. No substance. The moment you download their so called e-books, it’s nothing but ready made e-book templates which they got for free over the net to begin with, and the best part the so called book is just a tool to fish for more sales. When i decided to help coach people i set very clear standards. My rates will be premium because i give what  most people can only say they give. I give assurance of maximum amount of success, with one pre-condition. The participants must participate. This is a value that i have learned from all of my mentors.

My modules are custom made by me and my partner also another international trainer. What we teach and impart comes from a great deal of experience, knowledge that was shared to us and materials that have been created and tested for efficiency. Very rarely do you see genuine trainers spamming your inbox bugging you to buy this and that none stop. Though sadly some have been taken in by that wave, i would like to believe it is their business people who have made them do this decision.

However their content still caries weight to this day. It’s been more then 10 years since i purchased my first Tony Robbins books, almost a decade since i have been to a Robert Kiyosaki seminar and used all of his materials for my personal growth, a long time too has passed since i have finished my NLP course . But every one of that investment worked and is continuing to work. I spent a great deal of money and time, but hey, it’s far worth it than a quick fix that comes from some “MANUFACTURED GROUP” from the net.

You see the reason i wrote this particular blog is not to vent or to make some people sound bad and some better. It’s to tell you that you want something, anything at all to happen in your life, it starts with ACTION. The key word is to do. That’s what all of my mentors taught me and have in common. DO ! You wanna get skinny, stop shoving fatty foods in your mouth and start running, at least! You want wealth, then stop using your credit cards, pay up your debt and live with in your means until you have the means to live bigger ! No amount of sitting and visualizing and affirming is going to do any good if you don’t actually do anything. Doing the same thing everyday and expecting different results is insanity. And this was said by Albert Einstein, the smartest man in the world at a time!

So ask your self how will you loose weight if the system you bought of the net say’s you can eat and do what you want and just meditate and you will loose weight. That’s like saying keep punching yourself in the face, but visualize you don’t have a black eye and you wont get one. Really ?

Get help, get inspired, but if anyone say’s you get something for nothing, the deal is usually you get nothing.

Start doing my friends !

p/s: if i was a “MANUFACTURED GROUP” i would end this email with click on this button to find out how you can bla bla bla bla. But i am genuine in my willingness to help because the more i give the more i receive. If you really want to talk about a potential strategy or find out how to best do something and you genuinely cant afford it, let me know and i will do what i can to help without causing a major dent in your wallet !

Get Real, Get Dirty, Get Actin’ !

SEE & BE SEEN2013, came too soon. A time when maturity is colliding with interwoven insecurities and instabilities, a time when i am becoming my own with my own life, my own set of rights and wrongs, i wonder if 2013 could have waited a little longer before popping into my life.

But, that is the reality of life. It’s harsh, it’s imperfect, it’s volatile and it’s brutal. People undeserving of goodness get all the good, those who lie, steal and cheat, murder and rape, deceit and manipulate seem to get all the best of life. But life is also beautiful, wonderful, peaceful, loving, joyous, celebrations all around, hope and dreams still alive in every corner. Success stories of people rising from rags to riches, families reunited, lost loves getting together, babies being born, sun…..well the sun is still shining the last time i looked.

I am now an orphan. Lost my mother to a reason that is still hard for my logical side to comprehend. But in that loss i gained much more, so even in death my mom gave me something. My understanding about money and people has evolved. I still hate some people passionately and love many others with the same ardor and passion, if not more.

More grey hairs, but am grateful for the hair !

At 33 still have a waistline of 29 inches and a belly that isn’t obscene. Technically still not a millionaire, but i wont stop trying. Debt’s..ah well, seems like it’s my most loyal friend. It’s never left me free from the time i was 19. But it’s ok, lots of it are manageable though some can be a bit annoying.

So what is 2013. It’s what it always has been from the moment i began life on this blue ball we call earth. It’s living, growing and experiencing whatever all the years have got to give me. Debts or none, deaths or none, alone or not,life happens. And it will keep happening even after your gone. Making it influential to those around you, is truly a gift that you leave behind to the living.

2013, is going to be the best year of my life. But so will 2014, 2015, 2016……………………

Live By Design.

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A blog share from Paulo Coelho

Today, i would like to share something, something that makes me feel uplifted in  a way. The following are not

my own words, but they are copied directly from Paulo Coelho’s blog. An excerpt from his book, MANUSCRIPT FOUND IN ACCRA.

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by PAULO COELHO on JANUARY 13, 2013

avatarWhat the future holds for you depends entirely on your capacity for love.

And for that, you must have absolute and total confidence in what you are doing. Don’t let others say: ‘That road is better’ or ‘That route is easier’.

The greatest gift God gave us is the power to make decisions.

The adventure of the days to come needs to be full of romance, because the world needs that; therefore, when you are mounted on your horse, feel the wind on your face and enjoy the sense of freedom.

But don’t forget that you have a long journey ahead. If you surrender totally to the romance of it all, you might fall.
If you don’t stop occasionally to let both you and your horse rest, your horse might die of thirst or exhaustion.

And precisely at the moment when everything seems to be going well and your dream is almost within your grasp, that is when you must be more alert than ever. Because when your dream is almost within your grasp, you will be assailed by terrible guilt.

You will see that you are about to arrive at a place where very few have ever set foot and you will think that you don’t deserve what life is giving you.
You will forget all the obstacles you overcame, all that you suffered and sacrificed. And because of that feeling of guilt, you could unconsciously destroy everything that took you so long to build.

That is the most dangerous of obstacles, because renouncing victory has about it a certain aura of sanctity.

But if a man understands that he is worthy of what he has struggled so long for, he will realise that he did not get there alone and must respect the Hand that led him.

taken from MANUSCRIPT FOUND IN ACCRA

ACTION JACKSON!

Yeah! I am neither African American or named Jackson, but that movie had one key thing that got me. ACTION. Life is not about us sitting on our ass’s es wishing that things were different. There are so many charlatans out there who sell this and do very well surprisingly. 

Today’s generation of people are so used to having everything, that the moment they don’t have some material thing that will give them the significance for however short it is, they break down. So many new mental and emotional problems, AAAD, ADDS, ADIA. My diagnose is simple they all have one disease, the L A Z Y. Symptoms range from having an addiction to stupid reality tv shows and believing that the only way to be successful is if you are on TV. 

Today is a time when people are so overly vain about their faces, butts and boobs. MEN and WOMEN! 

So like action Jackson  i have decided to make this whole year and years after that to be the action year. Am not gonna sit around doing nothing about it, am gonna make things happen. For me and the world. SO kapoww ya’ll!

Get actin’!

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2013. That what it should all be about. The last 3 decades of my highly eventful life has changed me in ways that i can’t even begin to fathom. Maybe it’s life’s way of screwing with you. You want something badly enough. NO! You not gonna get that. You really don’t want something, here you go, have this. No amount of praying, having faith in your religion’s deity or reading “The Secret” or copious amounts of metaphysics and pseudoscience will change that. If it ever did, it’s because it was a mathematical outcome, the law of averages.

2012 was a bitch. I will not lie about it. If 2012 was a living being, i’d beat the crap out of it. But it wasn’t. But it did teach me one thing. You are fully responsible for how you want to live your life. It’s never really about the money. Bill’s and expenses will never end, even untill after you are dead. So big whoop. Do your best, fret not. If ever you feel overwhelmed. Stop. Change course for a while, get ideas outside of your own head. Then continue to move, and move in only one direction. Forwards. Forgive.Forget and move man. Move like you have never moved before. Because in the end, that’s all life is. Your either moving or your dead.

I’d like to leave the first blog of the year with a quote,

“If in life you keep coming to the same circle no matter how hard you struggle, it’s a damned good time to change your course”

Happy New Year ,2013 is gonna be awesome because am gonna move it with me!

Wham, and life happened …..

The me who is always meta-morphing

September 23, 2012. I started the I am series blog. I was determined on posting a blog every day or every other week at least. And i was getting close to that discipline. I was geared up. Driven and all fired up I made a decision to move the core operations of my business to Cebu. It’s a new growing potential there and i have had moderate success here based on my own personal standards. I still had my doubts. One feet in and another still in KL I gave my partner here 75% of my commitment. Barely a week in, I get the call, rather the email. An email, that shattered me and my being. An email, that changed everything, an email that said my mom passed away suddenly. The worse thing than that email is that i missed the funeral. From the point i got the email to me actually returning home took me 2 days. I never got to see my mom’s face upon her death.

All i have now is a single digital picture that was taken few weeks before she died.

My mom has always been my biggest supporter. However due to certain society pressures this highly progressive woman eventually caved in to the pressure and my personal relationship with my mom deteriorated, rather badly. As a matter of fact there was small feud that went on with myself and my mom the few months before she died. Misunderstandings and failure to communicate effectively on  my part is to be blamed. Being surrounded by an environment that’s detrimental to personal growth and personal breakthrough,  that was hers.

I was in a full on therapist mode for the two weeks mourning period as is the norm with Hindu rites. I myself do not prescribe to the idea of branding myself with “a” religion.

But my mother was a very pious and devout Hindu. In due accordance with her personal belief she had a very Hindu way of sending the departed soul.  I shaved my head bald as a symbol that one carries when a parent passes. Then after all is said and done, the relatives who came to show their support, left to fend for their own lives. I too bid farewell to my dad and left and took the flight back. One of my best friends sent me to the airport and talked with me about his own personal struggles in life.

I arrived in Cebu and the grief that I wasn’t able to show started manifesting in the ugliest of forms. I hated myself and everything living. Thoughts of suicide re-appeared far more frequently.  My friends and partner were worried, yet their strength helped me sustain. Until one night. I have never dreamed of a dead relative , no matter how close we were. That night I started feeling the presence of someone else in my home. I wasn’t scared as a feeling of familiarity crept in. When I went to bed that night I saw my mom in all her glory sitting beside me in my bed. As she was touching my face saying everything will be alright and she understands fully what happened and that she will be by my side, I felt a huge block of rock just lifted from the inner me. I woke up smiling the next day and I felt my mom’s presence around me for few more days till it was 30 days to the day she passed on.

My mom, who has been the pivotal point in my personal growth as an individual has come back in form of a spirit or soul and has once again uplifted me. My commitment for my business and my role in making a difference in this beautiful island of Cebu went from 75% to 1000%.  That is not a typo, I really mean a thousand percent. For I believe as the descendant of a migrant from India to Malaysia, my role , my purpose in life transcends my country of birth. This place I am in now needs me more than my country of birth. This place deserves a chance. So many wonderful souls here. So many beautiful hearts. All yearning for an opportunity to make a difference. I am committed to helping with creating that opportunity. The son of a woman who was known for education and growth is now doing the same on a bigger scale here.

Everything I was, is because of my mother, everything I am is because of my experience, everything that I will be is because who I choose to be. I choose to be one with everything synonymous with growth and opportunity to shine. I am who I will be and who I can be. I am. I am. I am.